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Prayer to Forgive a Cheating Spouse

For a betrayed husband or wife wrestling with forgiveness.

“Then came Peter to him, and said, Lord, how oft shall my brother sin against me, and I forgive him? till seven times? Jesus saith unto him, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven.”

Matthew 18:21-22 (KJV)

Lord, my spouse was unfaithful, and the betrayal cuts deep. I feel anger, grief and humiliation.

I do not know if I can forgive, but I want to try. Help me take the first step.

Peter asked how often he should forgive, and Jesus said, I say not unto thee, Until seven times: but, Until seventy times seven. Give me grace to forgive again and again.

Give me wisdom about the future of our marriage and protect my heart. In Jesus’ name, Amen.

Short prayer to remember

Lord, give me grace to forgive, and wisdom for what comes next. Amen.

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Questions about this prayer

Is forgiveness the same as trusting again?

No. Trust is rebuilt over time. Forgiveness can begin even before trust returns.

Should we see a marriage counselor?

Yes. A counselor can help you both process the betrayal.

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